יום שני, 10 ביוני 2013

Maintain Your Independence

Many couples are so happy when they first get married! That is fantastic! But herein lies a minefield that could potentially blow up. The couple gets so involved in each other and their relationship that they neglect other important areas of their lives and become overly dependent on each other. There is a seemingly beautiful concept that should apply to every young couple called "symbiosis". Sounds GREAT. But in English we have another word for it.

SERVITUDE.

Enjoy being married, invest in your marriage, make it top priority. But keep on living your own life!:). Keep up your chavrusas, friendships, hobbies etc. etc.

[Based on האיש מקדש page 108-109]

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